Thursday, September 30, 2010

Sex in various cultures

India

India played a significant role in the history of sex, from writing one of the first literature that treated sexual intercourse as a science, to in modern times being the origin of the philosophical focus of new-age groups' attitudes on sex. It may be argued that India pioneered the use of sexual education through art and literature. As in many societies, there was a difference in sexual practices in India between common people and powerful rulers, with people in power often indulging in hedonistic lifestyles that were not representative of common moral attitudes.

India played a significant role in the history of sex, from writing one of the first literature that treated sexual intercourse as a science, to in modern times being the origin of the philosophical focus of new-age groups' attitudes on sex. It may be argued that India pioneered the use of sexual education through art and literature. As in many societies, there was a difference in sexual practices in India between common people and powerful rulers, with people in power often indulging in hedonistic lifestyles that were not representative of common moral attitudes.

The most publicly known sexual literature of India are the texts of the Kama Sutra. These texts were written for and kept by the philosopher, warrior and nobility castes, their servants and concubines, and those in certain religious orders. These were people that could also read and write and had instruction and education. The sixty four arts of love-passion-pleasure began in India. There are many different versions of the arts which began in Sanskrit and were translated into other languages, such as Persian or Tibetan. Many of the original texts are missing and the only clue to their existence is in other texts.

When the Islamic and Victorian English culture arrived in India, they generally had an adverse impact on sexual liberalism in India. Within the context of the Indian religions, or dharmas, such as Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism and Sikhism, sex is generally either seen as a moral duty of each partner in a long term marriage relationship to the other, or is seen as a desire which hinders spiritual detachment, and so must be renounced.


Mesopotamia

Matriarchy was practiced in the earlier period of Mesopotamian civilization. The Mesopotamian society practiced sexual openness. In ancient Mesopotamia, Ishtar was the primary Goddess of life, men and women, nature and fertility, sex, sexual power and birth. Ishtar was also the goddess of war and weapons and any victory was celebrated in her temples with offerings of produce and money as well as through a feast and orgy of sex and fornication with holy temple prostitutes. Every woman was required, at least once in her lifetime, usually after she was married, to go to the Temple of Ishtar. She waited there till any stranger came and threw silver in her lap. Then she left the temple and had sex with the stranger, after which she could return home. She was not allowed to refuse the first stranger.


China

China has had a long history of sexism, with even moral leaders such as Confucius giving extremely pejorative accounts of the innate characteristics of women. From early times, the virginity of women was rigidly enforced by family and community and linked to the monetary value of women as a kind of commodity (the "sale" of women involving the delivery of a bride price). Men were protected in their own sexual adventures by a transparent double standard. While the first wife of a man with any kind of social status in traditional society was almost certainly chosen for him by his father and/or grandfather, the same man might later secure for himself more desirable sexual partners with the status of concubines. In addition, bondservants in his possession could also be sexually available to him. Naturally, not all men had the financial resources to so greatly indulge themselves.

Monday, September 27, 2010

Sex positions

My Mind is telling NO!! But my BODY IS TELLING ME YES!!!!

As I stated before the act of sex which is intercourse. People have different reasons on why they choose or not have sex. If you are sexually active or are going to, remember to always use protection or other method. By the way THE PULL-OUT-METHOD isn't as effective. To be honest, you have to be a "Pro" meaning good at having sex in order to do that. If your a virgin and your starting out at having sex and your doing the Pull-out-method take plan B.

Now, Looking for some variety to help transform that "same-old, same-old" night of lust into one of fire and passion? No matter how good we are at what we do, even the best performance can get a bit boring without the occasional injection of fresh ideas! Whether you are an athlete who wants to swing from the chandelier, or just someone looking for an easy alternative, you will find something here to fit the bill ... come on and take a look - I promise you won't be disappointed!!

69 Family

The old saying goes, its better to give then it is to receive... but when it comes to sex, we find it best to give and receive at the same time! The 69 family of sex positions consists of those alignments where two sexual partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously. We all know how 69 looks like.





Butterfly Family

Although we aren't really sure where the name Butterfly comes from exactly, we do know that this family of sex positions allows for some of the deepest penetration available... while leaving the receiving partner fully accessible for some added manual stimulation. Studies have shown that deeper the penetration is arouses the clitoris more.



Cowgirl Family

or those who like to be in control, the cowgirl family of sex positions puts you in the right position... on top. Make sure to try out as many as you feel comfortable trying to figure out which feels the best! This happens to be one of my top families. Guys do like a girl being in control!



Cunnilingus Family

Known by many names; going down, eating out, clam chowder, and carpet munching to name a few, the art of cunnilingus is best known for an important skill to master if you want to keep your woman satisfied... and generally speaking, a satisfied woman is a faithful one! Ladies and Guys please your woman. Give and then you will be blessed. I would show a picture however this is too vulgar. But we all know how it looks like. If not, watch porn.

Exotic Family


If the usual bump and grind is starting to lose its thrill, then its time to move up to the exotic sex positions family... Be warned; some of the exotic positions require a substantial amount of physical strength and endurance... make sure not to overdue it, and not to attempt positions outside of your physical capabilities. If you are flexible and energetic get on that!!!



Face to Face Family

The Face to Face sex positions family consists of positions that are kissing and necking friendly. Due to the intimacy and how well they work on beds and couches, they are some of the more commonly used positions for most couples. This would be an example of missionary the good old classic one :-)




Fellatio Family

The old saying used to go; the way to a man's heart is through his stomach... A pretty good tip if you have years to master the art of cooking. For those who are looking for a shortcut, or plan on launching a two pronged attack for their man, learning the fellatio family of sex positions is key for making your hard work memorable... This is my favorite one!! Girls: You rock is world next day you don't walk!! Better to try than not ever!!! Some people choose to not use flavored condoms I recommend highly. I'm sure there are people out there that do not like come in their mouth. Just saying.







Rear Entry Family


The Rear Entry family positions is a new. Formed by merging the old Doggy-style and Spooning Families.These positions incredibly comfortable for both partners, the angle of the penetration is nearly perfect for hitting the g-spot or prostate gland, and the receiving partner's genitalia is usually easy to access by either partner. These positions are very effective!!




If you are sexually active or are planning or abstinent remember: Use protection, question partner of Sex Partner's history and GET TESTED!! We rather know it than harm others.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Sexual Health Desicion Making

Hi Everyone and Welcome to the Wonder of Blogging!! I'm flattered that some of you have chosen to follow my blog post. For those who don't know me; I am a volunteer Peer REACH Educator for USF Wellness. As a Peer REACH Educator, I'm responsible to aware other students on the subjects of: Sex, Drugs or Alcohol. Let's face it there is a lot of myths on those subjects for instance; SIZE MATTERS!! NO IT DOESN'T PEOPLE!! There is no correlation between hands or feet to Penis size.

What is sex?

Sex. When people hear that word, they automatically assume the act of sex or intercourse. Sex isn't just the act its biological and gender. Sex is the foundation of one's genetics that make you a boy or a girl or inter-sexed. Gender is quite difficult to understand. Gender is the way one was brought up. I am a female. Gender is difficult to understand because as one may now, some civilians don't identify with their gender. Someone can be by nature a female but may identify as a male. I know this sounds confusing at first but it gets better.

How Does Sex play in our Society?


Sex, is important in our culture. Without some knowledge of it your parents wouldn't have ever made you. Most people experiment with a range of sexual activities during their lives, though they tend to engage in only a few of these regularly. Most people enjoy some sexual activities. Some people enjoy many different sexual activities, while others avoid sexual activities altogether for religious or other reasons (chastity, sexual abstinence, asexuality). Some prefer monogamous relationships for sex, and others may prefer many different partners throughout their lives.

Why do we have sex?

People engage in sexual activity for any of a multitude of possible reasons.

Most people engage in sexual activity because of the sexual pleasure they derive from the activity, most commonly through orgasm. Erotic pleasure can also be experienced during foreplay and from flirting, and from fetish or BDSM (Bondage and Principles, sadism and Masochism) activities. The most common pleasurable sexual activities are sexual intercourse (including foreplay) and masturbation.

Most commonly, people engage in sexual activity with a person to whom they are sexually attracted; but at times, a person may engage in a sexual activity solely for the sexual pleasure of the partner, such as because of an obligation they may have to the partner or because of sympathy or pity they may feel for the partner.

Also, a person may engage in sexual activity for purely monetary considerations, or to obtain some advantage from either the partner or the activity. Furthermore, a man and woman may engage in sexual intercourse with the objective of conception. Some people engage in hate sex, which occurs between two people who strongly dislike or annoy each other. It is related to the idea that opposition between two people can heighten sexual tension, attraction and interest.

What's to come?

I hope all of you have had a taste of what my future blogs are going to be. You might learn new facts and share it. Don't be hesitant to tell me in class what a good topic on "Sex" should I discuss.


Remember: DON'T BE SILLY WRAP YOUR WILLY!!
BOOKS BEFORE BOYS BECAUSE BOYS BRING BABIES!!

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Do I want something?

"Every act you have ever performed since the day you were born was performed because you wanted something‟ [ANDREW CARNEGIE]


Being the second and only girl in the family gave me a sense of privilege. I was a spoiled brat as I grew up but then as I started getting older I became mature and accomplished task in order to get what I want.

When I was younger, I would do devious task. I was called a Habladora- meaning whatever I heard from adult conversations I would repeat them. And when the adults would tell me not to say it I would say it and in return to keep quiet I would get a toy. Much times have changed and I've learned the hard way to keep my mouth shut and be respectful of others.

I know myself if I do something that's because I want something in return. I can be extremely OCD if my dorm room isn't clean. And I pester my roommate to clean her side that way our room looks spotless. I am outspoken, I say what is on my mind in other words blunt. I don't care what people think of my bluntness. If I want something I work hard for it.

My academics are most important to me and I don't care pulling all-nighters just to get the grade I deserve. I don't settle for B+ I want A+ I strive for the best possible. I want to achieve it because I know I can. I like to get good grades because I work hard.

In life you have to act a certain way to make choices. I took a risk into coming to USF and I'm glad I'm here because I'm making a difference. I want to achieve and my long life ambition is to fulfill my dream. And if I have to act heartless, mean, cold, friendly, nice or etc I know I'm up for it because I care and I was born to do this task I want and need.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Imagine

Imagine there's no heaven
It's easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today...

Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace...

You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one

Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world...

You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will live as one


- John Lennon


Imagine if just for one day the world will turn into peace and harmony. Society today is full of hate, oppression and mistrust. No one feels safe because of the riots and cruelty and the WAR. The war has segregated the world because of one reason- power. Power, dominance and treachery in order to obtain something that is just its just a desire not a need. Why can the world just get along. The reason behind it is because people are afraid of change, they don't adapt to change because is frightens them. What's worse is people not accepting change. Change is good when there are hard times.

Imagine in a world that everyone is equal, no fear, no rejection just harmony and peace. Imagine just being able to express yourself without someone holding you back or sending you to jail. Imagine just accepting others and you accepting yourself. Imagine being different and society praises you. Imagine a world without war and danger just peace and harmony. How about a Utopia? That's the kind of place everyone would want to live in. Being able to breathe without the constant fear.

Come together as one. Join the fight for equality and peace. Let's all live under one sky in harmony. How hard is that? I hope one day you can accept other and learn to live in peace. If we all come to a consensus and value others maybe one day you will join us.

Monday, August 2, 2010

Summer Term is DONE!

This summer has been a world wind. College during the summer is the toughest. I am proud to say that I have achieved good grades for this summer. This summer term I had to take three classes that were longer than two hours. My classes are as follows: Public Speaking, Sexual Health Decision Making and Composition.


My older brother, Nardo, being a sophomore at USF, gave me advice and told me that Composition was going to be a challenge. My first week at college was smooth, I was just frustrated on how much work I was going to be doing. The thing about summer term is condensing 14 weeks into six weeks! Yikes! But I knew I could handle anything if I set my mind to it. I at first wondered why do people drop out of college? Then I realized, the amount of work some people just loose motivation. My motivation is being "professional" and making a living for myself.

The classes that I've taken have all been rigorous in their own way. In Sex class, the Monday quizzes and the long lectures in the morning- which sometimes would lead to me falling asleep. Public Speaking, dealing with the speeches each week and Composition with paper after paper and not one day of no homework. These classes were easy to balance and it taught me how to grow as a person and do the easy homework first and work my way up.

Overall, college has taught me to be more responsible. I've changed an grown by being more straightforward and being myself.I think college teaches everyone to become independent but once in a while its okay to call back parents and ask for money. College isn't hard people can make it hard if they don't manage their time right. I hope to make these next four years the best time of my life and become the woman I was destined to be.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Why are face transplants more controversial than liver transplants?

Beauty is everything in this world. I find it hypocritical when society says its all about the personality not looks. Looks are everything, that's what matters to some people. The fashion, music, entrepreneur world focuses on these elements. I am a person that looks for personality. I go by the phrase that "Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder". My boyfriend has an illness and I forget to judge his outside just inside.

On November 27,2005 a French-woman named Isabelle Dinoire was the first person in the world to receive a partial face transplant. This was medical news because face transplants were considered impossible to do. Transplanting the nose and the chin are difficult because of the amount of tissue needed. Another face transplant was a Spaniard named Oscar he unlike Isabelle has all his chin, nose, and mouth transplant. This is an advancement in technology; however, to this new foreign transplant is controversial.


The conflict has raised both medical and ethical concerns, and with experts weighing in on all sides of the issue, the controversy is still far from resolved. The main debate questions whether the benefits of a face transplant outweigh the many risks associated with the procedure.Transplant rejection is one of the main risks associated with face transplants. According to the American Society for Reconstructive Microsurgery and the American Society for Plastic Surgeons’ Facial Transplantation Guiding Principles, “It is estimated that 10 percent of facial transplant recipients will experience an episode of rejection within the first year, with a thirty to fifty percent rate in the second to the fifth year.”

The other reason is that getting used to a new identity. According to Isabelle Dinoire she has to get used to her new face. Also stem cells are being used to grow new tissues and bones for face transplants. The face transplants are more controversial than legalizing marijuana. The face transplants are also highly resourceful and needs more tissues from the donor and expensive. The negative side is also the tissue rejection. Isabelle Dinoire, has to take for her rest of her life immmusuppressants in order for her antibodies not to attack the foreign tissue.

Liver transplants is not as rigorous to obtain but not as controversial because face transplants the donors are harder to find and its more expensive. Liver transplant at first were considered unethical but over the years it has been accepted. Face transplants are more difficult to accept because of the stem cells used to grow new tissues.I believe that if people want to pay for the risky surgery in order to make themselves happy- I say Go For it!! But face transplants are too dangerous and life changing.